My husband and I have been married for 25 years. We do not have children together, but he has children from a previous marriage.
We are retired now, and he bought property in Florida for us to live in. My name is not on the deed of the property, and he has not made a will yet. I keep complaining to him about it.
If he should die without a will, will his adult children and grandchildren be entitled to the property and house? Hopefully, you will be able to answer this question and set my mind at ease.
Your husband appears to have control issues at worst or, at best, problems with being direct and transparent. This is not the way to deal with a family property, especially after 25 years of marriage. If your husband wants his children to inherit his estate when he is gone, he should discuss it with you like a man (or woman), face to face, and you should outline a plan for your future together. But this game of cat and mouse, where he makes unilateral decisions about your future, is not a respectful or helpful way to conduct a 25-year marriage.
Not knowing if youâre going to have a place to live after your husband dies, assuming he predeceases you, creates a constant feeling of unease. The whole point of saving for retirement and being fortunate enough to retire comfortably is that you can see out your final years together with the knowledge that you will both be financially secure. Only one person in this relationship knows what that feels like â and, given that you have raised this issue with him, he is aware that you do not enjoy that same peace of mind.
Florida is an equitable distribution state and, for the most part, divides property 50/50. Hereâs the legal interpretation fromÂ Schnauss Naugle LawÂ in Jacksonville, Fla.: âIf the decedentâs homestead property was titled in the decedentâs name alone, and if the decedent was survived by a spouse and descendants, the surviving spouse will have the use of the homestead property for his or her lifetime only (or a life estate), with the decedentâs descendants to receive the decedentsâ homestead property only after the surviving spouse dies.â
You will have the right to live in this property for the remainder of your life. If you divorce, however, anything purchased during your marriage is considered marital property, and even though this home was purchased in your husbandâs name only, it would be divided 50/50. In Florida, âequitable distributionâ is mostly treated as âequal distribution.â According to this interpretation of family law in Florida byÂ Arwani Law: âEven if he purchases the car with his own money and puts the car title in his wifeâs name, it is still considered marital property.â
And as most lawyers will tell you, a lack of communication is one way of buying a ticket to divorce.
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